Sex on the First Date? Let’s get Honest. {NSFW}

A friend of mine, we’ll call him Michael Ramsey (that’s his name) has talked for years about having a dating contract, so people could be really clear and up front about their expectations, fears, desires, questions before dating. I think he created something.

Another friend, Ted Rose, has done something along those lines, but I don’t know much about it.

Honesty and dating, and never the twain shall meet.

It’s not that dating is dishonest, for most folks—but generally folks play games, shadows against the wall, until and if everything works out. And even then there are hidden expectations and surprises.

So let’s just get it all out there, shall we?

“I love J Date”:

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