What If We All Give It A Good Cry.

What If We All Give It A Good Cry.

I am a meditation practitioner, a mother, a wife, a friend, a daughter, a daughter-in-law, a teacher, a director, a gardener, a hiker, a walker, a smiler, a crier, and, yes, a crier. All my life things in our culture have struck me as incredibly sad and giving it a good cry is quite helpful.

It feels like we all need to give it a good cry. As we attempt to contextualize our existence, a culture has arisen in our society that is unhealthy in many obvious as well as subtle ways. I imagine that most of us would agree that our collective human culture with all it’s beauty, feels to be off and running in a precarious direction. From Environmental Devastation to the #MeToo Movement, our human culture appears to have lost its way. Our response to these collective atrocities appears to be to take a side and blame someone, anyone. We are all humans who wake up each morning wanting to be happy, and we feel that we are not the ones to blame. ‘If only YOU acted differently, this would not be happening’ seems to be our collective mantra. Our culture encourages us not to take responsibility, no matter how small a part we may play in this destruction. With this pervasive approach prevailing, the casualties are enormous. I am not suggesting here that there are not crimes that need to be addressed and individuals held accountable for them. At the same time, my heart wonders about the human culture that we are choicelessly swimming in and how that atmosphere has given rise to such enormous problems. When I look around, I see the squelched voices, the misuse of power and the need for change. I welcome this change and, at the same time, I feel for so many casualties in the wake of the the aggressively painful and disrespectful culture that these changes are arising in. As we awaken from these collective nightmares, let us also look at our culture that allows for such slumbering ways where wrong doings occur again and again. As these necessary and needed truthful voices sweep through our world, let us look at our collective culture too. It feels like we have lost our humanity and our love for one another in the process of looking at our collective baggage and blind spots which have been perpetuated and institutionalized. We carry all of this collective garbage with us simply by virtue of being born into this culture. Let’s not forget that we are all a part of this collective humanity. What if we all acknowledged this truth and gave it a good cry. By taking the blame in this way, we just might be able to find a new way to be together as humans on this planet. Together, we can create a new culture.

This new culture could raise it’s children truly valuing human dignity, respect for one another and the intrinsic worthiness of simply being human. More than just tolerance, although a starting place, this new culture could go much farther by valuing the cultivation of love for one another, an unbiased-in-this-together kind of love for each other. This new culture could value our differences and notice the similarities that we share by virtue of simply being human. This valuing of human love for eachother would feel deeply into these similar and different aspects of humanities expression and see them as our true strength. Inclusivity and equity would naturally arise in such a culture because all voices would be heard, cherished and respected. The need to embrace a new culture feels inevitable if we are to survive as humans on this Earth. Such a cultural shift just might be the truth that allows for each of us to live into our unique individual expression in harmony with our fellow humans and our environment before it’s too late. If humanity, which includes all of us, takes collective responsibility, then together we can move forward. Let’s all give it a good cry and embark on creating a new culture together.

Offered with love,

Susie Cook, July 12th, 2018

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