I’ll be happy in the future.
I’ll be happy when I get that toy I really, really want.
I’ll be happy when I find a best friend.
I’ll be happy when I improve my GPA and class rank.
I’ll be happy when I find a nice boyfriend.
I’ll be happy when I fall in love.
I’ll be happy when I graduate with honors.
I’ll be happy when I get into my top choice university.
I’ll be happy when I’m not sick.
I’ll be happy when I have enough money to travel.
I’ll be happy when I pay off my loans.
I’ll be happy when I get an amazing job.
I’ll be happy when I write a novel.
I’ll be happy when I find my life partner.
I’ll be happy when I buy my dream house.
I’ll be happy when I get a better car.
I’ll be happy when I have more time to spend with my family and friends.
I’ll be happy when Obama is president and Bush is not.
I’ll be happy when I move to another place, maybe even a new country.
I’ll be happy when I lose 15 pounds.
I’ll be happy when I can hold a handstand in the middle of the room.
I’ll be happy when my writing is published.
I’ll be happy when I have a baby.
I’ll be happy when my daughter is potty trained.
I’ll be happy when I am working from home.
I’ll be happy when I get married.
I’ll be happy when my husband and I have a better relationship.
I’ll be happy when I’m fluent in Spanish.
I’ll be happy when I can do what I want, which is yoga.
I’ll be happy when I quit my job.
I’ll be happy when I sell my house.
I’ll be happy when I get a good night’s sleep.
I’ll be happy when I go on a meditation retreat.
I’ll be happy when I travel through Asia studying the Dharma.
I’ll be happy when there is world peace.
I’ll be happy when I retire.
I’ll be happy when I die.
(Or not.)
What if happiness is not dependent on these conditions?
What if I could be happy, right here, right now, even though my life isn’t perfect and never will be?
What if I could be happy with my aches and irritations and concerns and duties?
I am happy just to breathe. I am alive.
I am happy just to have food, water, shelter, clothing and love. I am grateful.
I am happy just to hug and play with my beautiful little girl. I am happy just to be her mama.
I am happy just to trust and respect my partner. I am loved and loving.
I am happy like the songbirds, even when it’s raining.
I am happy like the lilies in bloom, even knowing I will wither and pass away sooner or later.
I am happiest when I am like water, when I let go and go with the flow.
When will you be happy?
What’s stopping you from being happy, just where you are, right now, today?
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Author: Michelle Margaret Fajkus
Editor: Ashleigh Hitchcock
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