Ladies, let’s be honest.

If you want to have a proper conversation about things that are bothering you in your life, you’re better off not talking with your man.

Communication between men and women has got to be the number one area that leaves both parties scratching their heads in confusion since the approach from both sexes differs so greatly.

Women love to talk. Men love to fix things.

Women just want to be heard and men just want to make it all better.

It’s only natural that problems are going to arise when one party is primarily solution-oriented while the other is process-oriented.

Yesterday I was having a conversation with my girlfriend about how her man just doesn’t listen to her and I remembered this hilarious clip released a while back from the comedy genius Jason Headley.

It so clearly identifies the difference between how men and women approach their problems and it had me snickering into my hand regularly as I related countless failed relationships that boiled back to this one issue.

If you want to show your man how you want him to respond when you share your problems with him, get him to watch this.

It’s priceless.

And it might just help bridge that gaping chasm of communication blackhole-ness between you both.

Relephant: 

F*ck That! {A Guided Meditation}

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