As I unfold years of my life I began to become more aware of the essence of inner peace, I was told nothing will be worthwhile if you don’t master the thought of having a sense of peace in your life, I never really know what this word actually mean not until I start getting to a certain age of my life then I discover that nothing will give you happiness in life if you fail to have inner peace.

I remember I use to get wary of every little thing in my life, small things get into me that sometimes I often lose my mind and sooner it will start reflecting in my being of how much that little thing have really affected me. Most time I take a whole lot of days to get over this sad feelings and things like that kept happening in my life over and over again till I was able to master my inner peace. I had to go through some certain procedure before I could master my inner peace but at the end of the day it eventually works for me. Here are few procedures I applied:

Living unconditionally: I started letting go of the things that seem to affect my being, I realize I was a very conditional person and often allow the things that happens around me to affect my life. I get happy or sad due to the factor that surround me so I let go of that feelings and I started focusing on how to never allow the things around me to control my emotions, I give little energy to the bad energy around me.

Directing my focus: I started choosing the things I will focus on and I also I started directing my focus to the things that bring joy to my heart instead of the things that bring sadness. Although I can never deny my eye or sense from witnessing the bad energy around me but I choose to stop focusing on them instead I was more focus on the things that are very pleasant to me.

I gave up on pleasing people: One of the things that could easily snatch your inner peace from you in this world is when you are busy looking for a way to please everybody in your life, human being can never be please, you need to understand that. Stop doing things for people in other to satisfy them because no matter what you do at the end of the day you can never please everyone in your life and this might snatch your inner peace away from you.

Released Control: For a certain fact in life you are the master of your life i.e. You are the master of your thought and whatever you think in your heart reflect in your life. I also learn that I can not control other people or the circumstance, I only have the power to control the response I give and the way I think about it in my heart.

Giving your self a great inner peace can be the biggest jackpot you can win in your life and this also lead to a permanent self love, having a self love is the biggest gift you can give yourself in life, having someone saying Happy Birthday to me or giving me the biggest love each day will not be enough if I lack inner peace which is the key to a happy life.