As sweet as marriage might appear to be, it can also be your worst nightmare if you marry the wrong person. Marriage is by far the biggest life decision every human being might have to make, either wrong or right we still need to learn in marriage but if you happen to marry the right person the battle of marriage will eventually be worth while.

Marriage is never a bed of roses, it will often bring different type of challenges but how ever we might look at it, the decision to stay with the one you truly love for the rest of your life all depend on the love you have for the person but the big question is how do we really know if the person we have chosen to spend the rest of our lives is truly the one? The greatest joy in life is getting married to your soul mate. Then how do we know the right person? Here are few ways you can find out if he or she is “The One” for you:

Happiness and Emotional support: The one whom you chose to spend the rest of your life with must be able to give you adequate love and emotional support. He or she must be able to feel your pain without you having to talk about it. He/she should be able to respect your feelings, understand when you are low or high. Their emotional feelings towards you must at least be obvious. Feeling the love of the person whom you have choose to spend the rest of your life with is the ultimate key as marriage requires a lot of happiness. Happiness comes when you love your partner and you can also feel their love for you.

Communication, goals and values: Communication with your partner is one of the most important factor you must look out for in marriage, He or she must be able to look out for your goals and dreams. Marriage is a great thing but you must look out if the person has the ability to make your dreams come to reality. Look out for the potentials of a great personality in your partner that’s what will keep the both of you going, you both must be able to motivate each other to attaining success in life.

Honesty and trust: Be open with one and another, honesty is the key to everlasting bond, look out never to lose the trust your partner has for you and you should never betray your partner trust. A marriage or relationship who lack trust is a failed one. Be honest with your partner and look out if the person you are about to spend your forever with is trustworthy. Trust is the fuel that keeps every marriage.

Affection, love and sex: Be affectionate, never go slow when it comes to romance, if the person you set out to marry is not affectionate then there might be problem in your marriage. Be a caring man and she also must be loving. Never get tired of sending Good night text messages for her. Check if your partner is loving this will help your marriage grow.