Traditions change with each new generation. And as the times have changed, the rules for getting engaged also have evolved. In the past, women received the engagement ring. But now men are wearing the ring, too!

Mangagement rings are en vogue, and today’s couples embrace this openly symbolic sentiment of commitment. And as the definition of marriage has expanded to include same-sex unions, the mangagement ring has become even more prominent. Mangagement rings showcase equality in all relationships, and there are no rules for who proposes and who accepts the proposal.

But what is a mangagement ring? The mangagement ring is just what you think it is…an engagement ring for him! Like a woman’s engagement ring, his symbol of a future marriage can showcase a solitaire diamond, gemstones or be styled as a simple band. There really are no rules for designing this ring, but it should be a style that’s well suited for his individuality.

So who wears a mangagement ring? Ed Sheeran wears a ring, but his ring doesn’t sport any bling. Michael Buble also wears a ring. But would you embrace this trend? If you’re thinking about sporting the mangagement ring, here are a few things to keep in mind.

Discover His Style

Some men are comfortable rocking a rock. Others? Not so much. Do you want your engagement ring to look traditional? That is, are you interested in a solitaire diamond? Maybe you want something more subtle like Sheeran’s band. If you do want a massive diamond, look for retailers who specialize in mangagement rings. This will ensure that your ring won’t look like a traditional wedding band and will be styled to favor an engagement ring design.

Know the 4Cs

If you’re shopping for your beloved’s diamond mangagement ring, become familiar with the 4Cs of diamonds: cut, clarity, color and carat. Each of these areas influences the look and price of the diamond. Some men want a smaller diamond, but others might want something more substantial. Your budget affects the diamond you choose, and you may need to sacrifice one of the four Cs to stay within your desired price range. So what area should you sacrifice? That’s entirely up to you. However, if you choose a diamond with a poor cut or clarity, then you may affect the brilliance of the stone. One area that won’t affect the look of his ring, though, is a diamond’s fluorescence. Many diamonds emit fluorescence when placed under ultraviolet light (like a black light), but this feature isn’t noticeable under other lighting conditions (including the sun, LED or incandescent lighting).

Metal Choices

One of the design details that affect the ring’s overall style is the metal used in the setting. Some metal hues favor warmer skin undertones, but others flatter cooler undertones. Yellow and rose gold are ideal metals that warm up a warm undertone, while white metals like white gold and platinum look great against cooler undertones. Of course, he also may have a preference for a specific metal and that’s fine, too!

Marriage proposals have evolved beyond old traditions to embrace the idea of the mangagement ring. And these rings come in a variety of designs and metal settings. Anyone can propose, and everyone can wear an engagement ring. Of course, who wears the ring is a very personal choice. So talk about how you want to show commitment in your relationship. But if you’re ready to rock a mangagement rings, you’re in good company!