Having the privilege to coach, consult and counsel with men over the past few years has provided an intricate perspective on the subject of the male Divine Masculinity. Upon my initial synchronicity with the essence of what this sacred term entails, I presumed it was innovative.  As it turns out, through my research, there were other likeminded souls traveling the same path. Yet in today’s society, I pondered how we could have wandered so far off this divine path. How did we get here?

Here?   “You are so stupid and needy, you can’t do anything right”.

“Girl, he can’t do anything without me”.

“What have you done for me lately?”

“I don’t need a man. I can take care of myself”

My heart shudders at the lower energetic vibration of this, however, we have heard the voices of these women before us and have uttered and perhaps offered a repeat of their language at some point or another with respect to men our lives. Our sons, brothers, uncles, boyfriends & spouses have been subject to this derogatory fete. As an empath & conduit for spiritual enlightenment, I have literally felt the pain and scorn of his heart that is a result of this language and its crushing of Spirit.  It is humbling, for me, to experience the mental, physical, emotional trauma of his suffering. Furthermore, it is heart-wrenching understanding that the physical body that walks this earth is only a representative of his Self and at the core of him is the True Divine. Can we see the True Him?

Man’s Creation

 While I have no one dogma with religion, my spiritual belief is in the collective teachings of those who guide us on our life path and provide alignment with our purpose for being here. The directional teachings of the Bible, for example, provide a clear and concise understanding that the creation of man is in the likeness of God.

“Then God said, ‘Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; and let them rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over the cattle and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.”- Genesis 1:26

This is the same God Source who previously spoke light, life, and land from nothingness to something.

Please read that again.

While the concept of evolution and the big bang theory contrasts that of biblical teaching, consider the following.

   He Spoke Light. (Genesis 1:14) Separating day and night while marking sacred times, days and years, we have the sun. Providing just the right amount of heat and at just the right time, the sun typically emits 32,000 -100,000 lux of illumination upon the earth.

Although the moon does not emit its own light, it mirrors that of the light from the sun at just the perfect angle providing a source of light for the night sky. Orbiting the earth 27.3 days, it undergoes many different phases, each month, which provides a specific amount of light at each moon phase.

Including earth, there are eight planets in the Solar System (solar means relating to or denoting energy from the sun). An article in Science published in October of 2016, suggested that there are 2 trillion galaxies in the observable universe however, there are 100 million stars in the average galaxy.  **https://www.livescience.com/56634-how-many-stars-are-in-the-universe.html

    He Spoke Life. (Genesis 1:21) There are about 1,250,000 identified species of animals. This includes 1,190,200 invertebrates among them are 950,000 insects, 70,000 mollusks, 40,000 crustaceans and 130,000 others. There are about 58,000 identified vertebrates, including 29,300 fish, 5,743 amphibians, 8,240 reptiles, 9,800 birds, and 5,416 mammals. These numbers do not account for the species that have yet been identified scientifically. An estimation of only 1% of all species that have ever lived still exists today. Furthermore, each species has a specifically designated space of habitation on the earth, whether air, land or sea.

    He Spoke Land. (Genesis 1:9) By volume, the earth’s water is measured at 335,000,000 cubic miles. The volume from aquifers is about 5,614,000 miles. The volume from icecaps & glaciers is about 5,773,000 cubic miles. The volume from saline oceanic water is about 321,000,000. Water is an estimated 70-75% of the earth’s surface while dry land is 30% and measuring about 148,300,000 square miles. I will refrain from the intricate details of land such as the noted wonders of the world and beyond.

    He CREATED Man. (Genesis 2:7.\) “Then the Lord God formed the man of dust from the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living creature”.  By comparison, there is something to be enamored by the effort that it takes to form something by hand, however, it is unconscionable to ascertain the amount of love, compassion and creativity ensued for just this one creation. The Man. And as if the handmaking of a replica God wasn’t the pinnacle of perfect love, He continued by giving him life with His own breath.

Furthermore, there are 30 trillion cells comprising of 200 different types in the human body. There are 206 bones & 78 organs. The brain alone is made up of 100 billion nerves that communicate to a trillion of connections within the body. The heart is the size of a fist yet it beats 100,000 times a day, pumping five or six quarts of blood each minute for about 2,000 gallons per day. The liver, being the largest internal organ, processes anything we eat or drink. Again, providing detail of the vast intricacies of the human design could take numerous writings therefore, I will refrain from doing so here. Besides, we have Google for that.

The extraordinary power is in the fact that there are over 4 billion people on this planet and while each of our physical structures is composed of these same biological components, there are no two humans exactly the same.

In His Likeness

What a powerful concept. I do not presume that any of us can fathom placing a sun in the sky or creating something as complex as the human body, nonetheless, the implication of a connection to a Source of this magnitude is intriguing. In recent years spiritual awakening, while esoteric to some, has become more accepting and engaging to others. Enlightened gurus are sharing their wisdom and experiences while lamenting the possibility of liberating the human spirit from the limitations of the ego. More people are asking what the meaning of life is and seeking to find answers.

“When the pupil is ready, the Master appears.”

Buddha says the true meaning of life is helping others achieve freedom from suffering.

The Tao says that life does not acquire meaning from something external of itself.

Christianity says to love thy neighbor and be fruitful and multiply.

Islam says to worship and surrenders to God’s will.

Spirituality says live in energetic alignment, as there is no separation from Source.

Whatever belief or deity you choose to embody, the fundamental essence is all the same.

  Love and Oneness

Consider the main meanings or functions of the heart (Love) chakra.

• Love for oneself and others
• Relating, relationships
• Compassion, empathy
• Forgiveness, acceptance
• Transformation, change
• Ability to grieve and reach peace
• Compassionate discernment
• Center of awareness, integration of insights

His Self-Worth vs His Net worth

Biblical and historical data noted the age of the first man at 930 years. It is unclear as to the number of those years did he live alone prior to the arrival of his mate, however, what if intellectual deduction would indicate that time ensued a maturation of self-love without a need for meaning external of himself.  Additionally, we know he surrendered to the divine will by applying his gifts to cultivate the land and take dominion over the creatures. Perhaps he spent many years in preparation for their home prior to her arrival. Still, God determined that it is not good for man to live alone so the woman was the solution to achieve freedom from his suffering. Granted later with the opportunity to sacrifice himself for a soulmate connection, he gave his rib for the miraculous creation of her.  Together they were fruitful and multiplied.

His innate hero instinct has been evolving from the beginning of time. Cultivate, create, and repeat.

Unfortunately, the evolution of love for Self and Oneness eventually began to dissipate. Societal pressures required him to place more importance on cultivation. He habitually resigned in a state of fight or flight where dysfunction and chaos are addictive. His net worth is a façade for his self-worth. The weight of the world rests on his shoulders with the expectancy to perform, provide, protect, and please.

According to the biblical story, when it was time to provide the rib to create the woman, the man fell into a deep slumber. There is never a mention of him waking up. On a conscious level, I believe many exist in this lower vibrational sleep state. In this state of awareness (or lack thereof) the ego transcends that of the God Consciousness. Yet while the ego asserts dominance, there is no real separation from Source.

The Weight of His World

Considering the perfect and miraculous intricate details of the human body, notwithstanding the operation of its mechanical engineering without the help of man, why is there such a breakdown to his structure? Researches from a plethora of studies have determined that stress is the leading cause of many diseases (dis ease). This does not exclude mental disease. Yes, his build is with broad shoulders and strong structure to withstand the physical pressures of cultivation, however not to the detriment of his Sacred Self. The epidemic from the lack of self-love, self-worthiness, and self-actualization for our men continues in a vicious cycle affecting generations of brokenness on every level. Societal dysfunctions plagued by the matrix, while not solely his responsibility, are essentially a part of his breakdown.

His Healing

A bout of diarrhea, headaches, vomiting, sleeplessness, were my ailments at different times however with the same underlying cause.  Initially, I was not only concerned but also clueless. My health is in immaculate condition. Therefore, for this, I needed answers.  As I secluded into prayer and meditation the answers became clear and the result was surreal.

I was experiencing empathy pains from the energy of a male in close proximity.

As an empath, an energetic connection with my clients is not only common but expected.  However, this level of connection had become more in-depth. Understanding that a soulmate connection can open up more channels to cosmic energy, I now had a better understanding of the shift. This was indeed my era of transcendence as a catalyst to men for the liberation of his Sacred Self.

Three years ago, I did not have a compelling answer as to why my call to purpose is in alignment with that of service with a male tribe. When the Universe summons for a Spiritual Awakening to a purpose, asking why is demonstrative of an egoist state of being. Therefore, I chose to concede to the calling and have faith that the answers appear along the way.

“You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.

On this journey, I have observed that in many ways, man has become separate from his Source. In today’s society, we can see the effects of this in sexual assaults as well as physical, mental, and emotional abuse, as a small example.

Hurting people hurt other people.

The enneagram personality types provide some understanding of the development of certain behaviors. The Enneagram Institute explains that mostly these archetypical behaviors develop as a defense mechanism forming in early childhood. With a better understanding of how the separation initiated, a healing process can begin. Learn more about enneagrams archetype and take the test here.

We all have issues. The solution is not to further exasperate them, however, to heal them.

For him, by further exasperating them, I mean by using the language mentioned at the beginning of this article. By emasculating him; By using him for monetary, material and/or career gain; By crushing his spirit; By enabling him; and the most disgusting offense of all is by using innocent children as pawns in a sick game of parental chess.

“Do not go where the path my lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail”.

– Ralph Waldo Emerson

Conclusion

In conclusion, it is because I have literally felt the pain of our men, mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually that I write this. They are hurting due to their perceived expectation to carry the world on their shoulders without showing any emotion or weakness in the process, dying at an early age, suffering from chronic illness or suffering in silence. Suffering in silence translates into a hunger for success. Success to the tune of sacrificing their self-worth for their net worth. In addition, functioning addiction has become the default coping mechanism.

“Seek first the kingdom and all these things will be given to you.” -Matthew 6:33

It is my mission to retain that of Divine order. According to the aforementioned biblical quote, man is just one level below God and made in His likeness. As his Sacred Self, he is King of his kingdom. When a man knows he is king, he leads like a king and lives his life as if he is a king. This is Divine order and when we are out of alignment with this order, all else fails. Failure translates into communication breakdown, divorce, abuse, incarceration (white collar and blue collar), complacency, and lack of purpose.

As an independent self-actualized woman who supports the feminist movement, I also embrace and empower the wholeness of man in leadership. I am able to divulge this fact with an enormous fete of overcoming my own disdain for men that developed as a result of a sexual assault at the age of 17.

I choose to love & support him like the King that he is.

~Proverbs 31

1The sayings of King Lemuel—an inspired utterance his mother taught him.
2Listen, my son! Listen, son of my womb!
Listen, my son, the answer to my prayers!
3Do not spend your strength on women,
your vigor on those who ruin kings.

Epilogue: The Wife of Noble Character
10A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.
11Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.
12She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.
13She selects wool and flax
and works with eager hands.
14She is like the merchant ships,
bringing her food from afar.
15She gets up while it is still night;
she provides food for her family
and portions for her female servants.

6She considers a field and buys it;
out of her earnings she plants a vineyard.
17She sets about her work vigorously;
her arms are strong for her tasks.
18She sees that her trading is profitable,
and her lamp does not go out at night.
19In her hand she holds the distaff
and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
20She opens her arms to the poor
and extends her hands to the needy.
21When it snows, she has no fear for her household;
for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
22She makes coverings for her bed;

she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
23Her husband is respected at the city gate,
where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
24She makes linen garments and sells them,
and supplies the merchants with sashes.
25She is clothed with strength and dignity;
she can laugh at the days to come.
26She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
27She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
28Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
29“Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all.”

30Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
31Honor her for all that her hands have done,
and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

 

Collective Challenge for Women

(Note: These are acts by your hands. Anyone can pay for a pedicure, however, you are going where there is no path & leave a trail. If there is no significant other, a son, nephew or brother can appreciate most of these as well.)

• Give him a pedicure (Jesus led with example when he washed the disciples’ feet)
• Wash his car
• Put gas in his car
• Take him to dinner
• Surprise him with a getaway
• Try something new with coitus (my personal favorite is tantra)
• Send him to get a facial
• Create a sacred space in the home just for him
• Help him with clean eating
• Massage his shoulders

Please join me on the mission to elevate our men by seeing him in the perfect image of God (Flaws and all). Be a part of the solution & liberate him.

Sidenote: The body becomes addicted to chaos and dysfunction. As with any addiction, recovery takes time and the sudden change to incorporate these antidotes above may send him into withdrawals. Be patient and have faith in the process.

“An awakened man looks for an evolved woman as a partner on his life journey because he knows that as thier souls emerge she will help him to make the shift and become a man of higher awareness”.      -Daniel Nielsen

#forHim #ElevateHim #CelebrateHim #WOLVESofzen

Wholeness & Orgasmic Liberation Via the Evolution of his Sacred Self    (c)2019