1. You have a constant snuggle buddy.

Whenever you have a terrible day at work, all you want to do is come home to your man and cuddle. Life is better when you have a human teddy bear to lie on. You feel so secure and comfortable being in his arms that you forget about how pissed your boss got when you fucked up on a huge project. Until tomorrow….

2. There’s always someone there to vent to.

Let’s be honest: Girls need to vent. Whenever something bad happens, you either go to your closest gal pals or chat with your boyfriend about the situation. No matter what, you know your boyfriend will be there to lend an ear and comfort you when times are rough. He won’t ever snub you or make you feel like you’re being stupid because he’s on your team!

3. The way he looks at you!

This “look” makes you feel special, wanted, and loved. When your eyes meet his, you feel like you’re the only girl in the world and that’s the greatest feeling ever. Only your boyfriend gives you this glance and you cannot help but smile and coyly giggle.

4. You never feel lonely.

You know those nights where you yearn for the human touch? You no longer need to feel a sense of loneliness because your boyfriend is there to fill that void. You don’t need look for other ways to feel less alone because your boyfriend will scoop you right up and hug you.

5. You can totally be yourself!

Not everyone will like your personality, but that’s OK because you know your #1 fan will never get sick of you being you! Your boyfriend fell in love with you for being yourself, so you don’t need to hide or shield who you are. It’s a great feeling to just totally be you and not put on a front!

Reasons Why And Things to Say on Your Boyfriend’s Birthday

There are two types of men: those who enjoy birthdays and those who do not. Things that you can say to your boyfriend on his birthday differ depending on which type of guy he is. You may want to send a love letter or you may want to send something sweet. Consider your boyfriend’s personality before you decide what to say or do.

A Few Phrases to Say on His Birthday

A few great phrases you can say or things to talk about to make your boyfriend feel special are:

• I love you. How did I get so lucky to have you?
• Let’s make this the best birthday yet for you!
• Here’s to many more birthdays together!
• You’re my favorite person in the world and deserve to have the greatest birthday ever!
• You mean so much to me and I feel blessed to spend this special day with you!
• You are an incredible person! I am amazed by you and so proud of you. Thanks for sharing your special day with me.
• How can I make this day extra special for you?
• I have a special day planned for your birthday because I love you so much!
• You deserve the best on your birthday!

 A Guy Who Enjoys Birthdays

For the boyfriend who likes celebrating, you can say and do the following:

• Obviously, you can tell him “happy birthday,” and give him a huge hug.
• Keep calling him the birthday boyfriend throughout the day. Talk about how special the birthday boy is (or birthday man, if you feel more comfortable).
• Tell him all the wonderful things you love about him. Spread them throughout the day rather than lumping them all together, and he is sure to feel special.
• If you are in a serious relationship, his birthday can be a great way to tell him where you would like the relationship to go. You can say, “I love being in a relationship with you and can see us spending our lives together.”
• Plan a fun activity for him and tell him you have a special surprise for him later. You can tell him, “I’ve got something awesome planned for you later and I can’t wait for you to see it!”
• You can say, “I love you so much and can’t wait to celebrate you today!”
• You can let him know, “You mean so much to me and I want to make sure you have a perfect birthday.”

 A Guy Who Does Not Like Birthdays

Some people just don’t like birthdays. No matter how much you may love your boyfriend, he may not want you to remind him of his birthday. A few things that you can say to your boyfriend who doesn’t like birthdays are:

• You can tell him how much you love him. No matter what day it is saying, ‘I Love You,’ is always a great idea. You can say, “Have I told you today how much I love you?” If you aren’t in love you can say “… care about you.”
• Don’t tell him it’s his birthday but don’t make it obvious that you are trying to avoid the topic either.
• If you must mention it is his birthday, just call it his special day. You can say, “Let’s have a great day together and enjoy this special day.”
• Birthdays are a good time to discuss how much you mean to each other. Even if he isn’t into celebrating, you can still spend quality time together. You can say, “I love spending time with you.”
• You can mention, “You make me so happy. I appreciate what a great boyfriend you are.”

 Why Are Birthdays Special?

At some point, you may find yourself asking what makes birthdays so special. After all, everyone has one annually and thousands of people share the same birthday. However, many people value birthdays as more than just a simple day of the year. The following are a few reasons why birthdays matter:

• Everyone grows older on a birthday. When you are younger, this is exciting (getting closer to getting your license or drinking) and when you are older it’s not as delightful. However, birthdays signify aging and that everyone is human.
• In astrology, a birthday is (in most cases) the only time of the year when all the planets fall as they did on a person’s birth date.
• Many cultures celebrate birthdays more than they do actual births.
• Birthdays are a great opportunity to celebrate your relationship.
• Birthdays offer a chance to express how much you care about someone.