Love is something we all crave and we do all we can to fall in love with the right person. However, most of the times we often mistake love with affection. Affection is different than love, love is all about growth and constant care for someone who cares for you back. Love is a two-way street and an exchange of feelings.

Love is something that can not be described in words, but all a girl can say about love is that; love is something which is irreplaceable, it can not be disposed and it can not be thrown away. If it could be thrown away, it would be anything but not love.

Moreover, love is difficult for girls than it is for boys. It has been like this since the beginning of time and it is about time we register the fact that girls are better at loving people than boys. Boys are reckless and cannot manage love as well as girls can. Girls know love inside out, love is second-nature to them, they are expressive and caring when they are in love.

Perks of a girl’s first relationship

According to a saint, you will only truly love thrice in your lifetime. This can be proven wrong because we as girls in this era tend to fall in love several times with different people.

A girl’s first relationship or better say the first time she falls in love will be the love she’ll never forget. According to a survey, most people learn the most from their first relationship. A girl’s  first relationship will hurt like a bullet through her chest, but it will be worth it. The first time she falls in love with someone is beautiful.

It is safe to say that she might never feel such high and loved in her life again because the hormones of a teenager make the feelings intensify! However, the drawbacks are vital as well.

The relationship starts with a cute date to the coffee house or the movies, she will never forget the feeling of being on a first date with someone. Especially when she is attracted to them in a different way.

We as humans never forget our firsts. We will never forget the first kiss we had or the first time our date held our hand; all our firsts are going to be special. Though for a girl it is different. She is looking forward to the first time, she does all the romance and makes golden memories. But when it ends, it ends brutally, ripping all the love she had, ripping her heart wide open.

Relationship Struggles

Relationships require a lot of hard work and effort. When people say that when you meet the right person, everything sets on its own, this statement is not completely right nor completely wrong.

Often when a girl meets the love of her life, she eases up and let life do the rest. However, this approach is not cynical at all. All good things in life come with hard work, how can you expect the perfect partner to just come and stay unless you’re not giving them a reason to stay?

Hence, love does require hard work. When you meet the right guy, make sure he loves you the way you deserve. It is important that you tell him all about your past so that if he’s going to run away in the future, he might as well do it now.

Couples usually tend to grow on each other’s neck, resulting in them being toxic for each other. People don’t understand the situation the other person is in and try to make judgments on their own. However, a girl should not assume things and rather ask her partner.

Relationship should be based on solid trust. Presumably, a girl usually doubt her choices and overthink a lot when in a long-term serious relationship. It is best to let go of such thoughts and trust your partner. Communication builds trust, so talk out each and everything with your partner.

Love is inevitable

Sometimes, things get rough and your partner might not be doing well in his life. Remember that David Beckham’s wife stayed with him through his thick and thin, and they are the best couple to look up to right now!

A girl never gives up on the person she loves. This surely doesn’t mean that she should love that person even at their worst toxic behavior, but she can always get herself help. Get her partner a psychologist or a professional who can help them both out. If nothing works, they can also sign for couple therapy and get answers to all their problems.

Remember problems get solved when shared with people because they give you perspective about it, a perception that love has blinded for you!

How to get over a relationship

Getting over a relationship for a girl requires a lot of time and patience. Nothing else will heal a break-up, other than time. She has to phase her partner out. Every girl has different ways of reacting to a break-up.

Some girls try to use rebounds as an escape from their break-ups and it makes sense to some extent. Girls usually do this because they are afraid of being all by themselves. In this process, they make terrible mistakes.

Girls throw themselves at guys who are not even worth a penny. And when these guys use them and leave them further broken, they complain about all men being pigs. Well, this is something you should not do.

For a girl getting over a relationship, time is the only thing that can heal a broken heart. She needs to give it a bit time, isolate herself at the start but then slowly try to socialize with people. She can never get over a break-up without her friends.

A girl need not to rush into things in life, always wait and speculate each and every aspect of a guy before she dates him. Such mistakes come back later and haunts her. It is best not to indulge in a serious relationship unless she is deeply in love with the person!

Author Bio: Samantha Palmer

Samantha Palmer is a senior content developer and a blogger who loves to share her views on diverse topics. She holds great knowledge and experience of creative writing and is currently associated with a renowned media publishing company Peace Quarters.