As part of the 13 week series I have running on my channel, we are exploring the Sacred 13 whom are the13 archetypes I am currently working with in my sacred service. We are getting to know each of these incredible sources of intelligence with the intention that their active presence in our life will support the evolution of our reality. The Sacred 13 are archetypes that I have been trained as an Intuitive Guide by the Institute for Intuitive Intelligence, where my Principal Dr Ricci Jane Adams created the space for a quantum integration with the truth of these archetypes, who are only a few out of 100’s and 1000’s that have been observed and studied across fields of sciences, spirituality and the arts. The archetypes who make up the Sacred 13 are;

Alchemist
Student
Wife
Goddess
Maiden
Crone
Priestess
Queen
Wild Woman
Mother
Maga
Teacher
Warrior

Archetypes are patterns of energy, behaviour, experiences that can be observed and reflected upon to expand the conscious understanding of reality. Some experts use archetypes to understand parts of our psyche and identity and even go on to demonstrate how archetypes play out in the collective unconscious. Carl Jung is renowned for his studies and research into archetypes. Caroline Myss is another highly regarded teacher and genius for her teachings of archetypal sight and/or spiriutal sight.

The first time I met with the Wife I was in Bali for our Third Level retreat where I was immersing into the practical experience of training to become an intuitive guide. It was our first night there and all 13 of my sisters and I, our fierce teacher Dr Ricci-Jane Adams and our 4 lead mentors were sitting in circle together. We were being introduced to the beautiful Sacred 13 and were instructed to place each of the archetypes in order of who we were most drawn to, to who we were least drawn to.

I was least drawn to the wife.

Throughout the week I found myself being drawn to particular archetypes and still by the end of the week feeling as far away as possible from the wife as I could.

It was our very last day and our very last working session together and I was partnered with my sweet nurturing sister Nafisa and she was providing a method session for me. She had the wife waiting for me with the most epic transmission that had me absolutely floored. I was so resistant to meet with her believing that I could never confine myself to my own limited perceptions of what it means to be a wife, unwilling to consider myself as someone who is dependant and reliant. Her message cut through parts of me I had no idea were the foundation of a largely warped and conditioned idea of the wife. I was told later that day that it was no coincidence that the wife was the last drawn on the first day and the last to impart with me on the last day.

Since leaving Bali with that fierce illumination into the potential that this incredibly potent archetype is, my world has absolutely transformed. There was something incredibly archetypal about the journey that I took even getting to Bali. Travelling there solo and leaving my partner and children at home so that I could follow the call of my heart to accelerate my evolution in the warmth of mama Bali, an epic demonstration of the wife that I did not then realise I was embodying. Every moment I felt held, supported and safe, even when my sheltered and privileged idea of the world was challenged and I witnessed what life outside of a westernised developed country looks and feels like. My whole entire experience in Bali, looking back now through the lense of the wife, is revealing to me how far I have journeyed to not only love and accept myself, but to support myself with uncoditional devotion and reverence.

It has been almost 8 months since the Bali immersion and my whole entire life has transformed. I separated with my partner and instead of sealing the knot with him made the commitment to uniting with myself. Making this commitment has seen all of my relationships to change, in particular my relationship with my perception of the world. Since coming to truly recognise what the wife has offered me, I will never resist her potency ever again. She is this loud and fiercely devoted energy within me that is motivated to be in partnership with the evolution itself. She is the drive in me to keep showing up for my evolution and to keep on leading through my own self evolution.

I am curious to know, which version of the wife are you attuned to? and which is attuning to you?