Needing is natural.
Wanting to be loved is natural
Don’t shame yourself for wanting to share love. For needing to share love, feel love, receive love & give love.
This is your birth right.
Sure, we have our “attachment styles”, our traumas & our ‘woundings” but they do not define you.
Even with out these, your heart would still long to be met.
It yearns to be met by another’s
open heart
honest heart
vulnerable heart
tender heart
courageous heart
Don’t
shame your longing.
Don’t spiritually bypass your need.
The more your exile this part of you & label it as “ my wounding”
“ my attachment style” the more you are abandoning the most precious aspect of your heart.
Bring the heart in.
Bring it into the centre of your “ attachment style & wounding”
Tell the heart it has all the right to want to give & receive love.
Affirm to the heart, that longing is welcome here.
For the very denial & neglect of that, is what pulls you further away from yourself.
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