Quite often, we fall in love with the wrong people, as silly as that sounds it happens, you might wonder how can someone be wrong for me? How can my heart choose someone who’s wrong for me, but you’ll agree with me that 90% of heartbreaks was as a result of not adhering to instincts, definitely your instincts might have told you how wrong that person was for you and yet you choose to stay instead of walking away, you choose to ignore those red flags that was a threat to you emotionally and physically, now I ask you, for how long will you continue ignoring your instincts? For how long will you choose to follow your emotions instead of reasoning with your senses all in the name of love? Falling in love with someone should feel perfect, your instincts shouldn’t be negatively on alert for any reason, trust me I’ve ignored my instincts several times and faced the consequences. Regardless of how deep your feeling for he/she is, if it feels wrong please walk away, if you can’t cope with the red flags please don’t lest you get burnt. I wrote this because I’ve been there before, I allowed my emotions overshadow my senses, even when my instincts was screaming danger I ignored and approached the furnace and got burnt, so burnt a part of me was left broken and you no what? No matter how you heal there’s a part of you that will remain scarred, broken and inaccessible even by you.
I repeat, don’t let love cloud your senses, I want you to go ahead and do the right thing in spite of your fears and feelings, if he/she feels wrong for you then walk away, let them go, it might hurt them, but at the end you’ll be grateful you saved your soul instead.