I was recently asked why I ( who has  a plethora of great men surrounding myself) always chooses the same toxic man?” I have repeatedly gone back to the same one who has hurt me over and over again. Why? I ask myself this as well. When I chose him I had a buffet of other men I could of, should of , wish I would of chosen. However,  I picked a particularly nasty sort and now here I am in another soul saddening break up. I can compare it to eating at a buffet (before Covid of course). There is a huge selection of great, delicious,  and satisfying food at the buffet, but you only want ice cream and its not on the menu. Your so focused on ice cream you can’t see all the other fun, fancy flavors you may be missing out on. As you struggle to get over the unreachable ice cream , that delicious treat starts to melt. Only then can you see all the great other items on the table. So eat baby girl! Eat at that buffet of strong, independent,  funny men who want to see you happy. Skip that same old treat & explore the world!