If you know me well enough, you’d know that Matthew Hussey is my go-to guy when it comes to relationships.

Hussey is a life coach and the author of Get the Guy. I read the book, and I’ve watched every single video on his YouTube channel—I promise. Well, Hussey saved my butt many times in the past. If it weren’t for him, I would still probably be attracted to some guy who’s either emotionally unavailable or has a fear of commitment.

There’s something about Hussey that makes you want to listen to him. And trust me, if you do listen to him, he will save your butt the same way he has saved mine.

Last month, he uploaded a video about the biggest red flag that we tend to ignore when we’re dating someone. Well, I kept nodding and saying “yes” the entire time because he’s so damn right. There’s one red flag—only one—that ruins our relationships. And we always disregard it and say, “Nahhh, it can’t be.”

Folks, here’s what you need to know about red flags:

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