Do you lack the energy to revive your sex life? Do you feel exhausted at the mere thought of it?

Believe it or not, it takes about the same amount of time and energy to revive a sex life as it does to bake a batch of muffins. If we feel able to make a batch of muffins right now, then we have enough energy to attend to our sex lives.

How much time does it take to make a batch of muffins? Well, it takes time to heat the oven, prepare the batter, and pour the batter into the muffin tins. Then, it takes time to bake the muffins to a golden brown. After that, the muffins are baked to perfection. Fresh out of the oven, they are hot and ready for you and your partner to enjoy. The flavour bursts with pleasurable delight in your mouths. The muffins are a love offering, and they provide comforting nourishment for you and your partner to savour together.

To engage in lovemaking with your partner, the actual amount of physical effort and time required is about the same. Start with slow and tender touch to warm up your bodies. Then enjoy the heat of your erotic pleasures and the burst of sweet release. After that, your lovemaking is completed to perfection. Emerge fresh and satisfied, savour the warm feelings of love and intimacy with your partner that you have taken the time to generate. Your relationship with your partner is nourished.

Think about the enjoyment and pleasure experienced from baking and savouring fresh muffins. These thoughts may motivate us to bake muffins more regularly. Think about the enjoyment and pleasure experienced from initiating and savouring a lovemaking session with your partner and become motivated to make love more regularly.

Enjoyment begets more enjoyment. Pleasure begets more pleasure.

This is a recipe I propose for you to try out, as a means to revive your sex life—simply, one day at a time, for the benefit of yourself and for your intimate relationship.

Try this simple recipe.

Yummy Sex Life Recipe.

Set an intention for the enjoyment of lovemaking time.

Be present with your mind’s desire for passion.

Be present with your body’s desire for erotic touch.

Put all other matters aside for now.

Enjoy the sensuous pleasures that are yours to savour in the moment.