I used to buy into the whole twin flame journey.

I went to a psychic years ago he pulled the twin flame card for a guy that I was dating. I read up on the twin flame journey and bought into it for awhile. The whole runner chaser theory and all.  But what I did was ended up mistaking narcissists for twin flames. You see I believe everyone’s journey is different. And a lot of people wrote about their love stories defining it and setting rules. But when it comes to love should their be rules? The whole you will see 11:11 and 2:22 when you meet your twin flame or higher level soul mate! Ouch! The word higher level soul mate so than we have lower level soulmates? I think that’s crap too! Reading so many articles about twin flames got me into a lot of trouble. Instead of listening to my intuition I bought into all the rules online about twin flames. When in fact none of the men were my twin flames. They were narcissists that I would now not even put in any category except mistakes or in the spiritual community the appropriate terminology should be a learning lesson. I really also don’t believe the whole we ascending down from heaven and our souls were split in half. I mean it’s a nice story to read in books. But I don’t believe I’m half of a person. And I definitely do not need someone to make me a whole person.  And in tarot readings the four of wands is 11:11 their is that number again! Oh watch out it’s your twin flame! I’ve been seeing that number for five years and sorry to say that it’s incorrect. Again I feel that number means different things for different people. It can also mean enlightenment or spiritual path! Just like 2:22 means balance! The biggest lesson I learned is to go with my gut instinct. Because everyone’s journey is different. Just because someone says you met your twin flame does not mean it’s true! Who can really prove they exist? I do believe in soulmates because who would come down to this hell without a tribe? I mean Earth is the real hell! And we all need some support so I do believe we come with back up!  I think it’s better not to label any relationship. Just go with the flow instead of asking others or trying to read into what is going on! Sometimes signs that we don’t understand can trick us into thinking someone was meant for us. But we have to step back and ask ourselves What am I really feeling? Don’t get love bombed in the first week or month and tricked by a narcissist saying they are your twin or soulmate because the clock says 11:11 and they feel your energy! When I was not sure what angel numbers meant I was lead astray! Or thinking someone seemed familiar because of a name that I heard. But when I really felt deep into it I was like I’m not even interested in this person I just thought the signs were telling me to be. And we all have a lot of hormones running wild when we first meet someone.  Just don’t confuse it for love.  I have yet to encounter anyone that I have really felt a divine connection with except for a man that really is my soulmate on the other side. I used to watch so many readings in the past what is the divine masculine doing? Really who cares what he is doing? If someone wants to leave hold the door open! Don’t watch readings to see if their coming back! In life we have a lot of experiences! Putting labels and getting lost in titles and specific rules takes the fun right out of it! It also takes away from our learning experience. We need to decide for ourselves how we feel. And if someone is really worthy to be in our life! If not then we are saying we don’t trust ourselves and we need someone else to tell us how we feel. But only we know how we feel. And only you know who should be in your life and who should not! Someone that love bombs, disrespects, runs from you or hits you should not be in your life. I don’t care what any reader says.

Know your worth! And know yourself!