When you listen to someone,
Ask yourself, are you listening to understand him & allow him to express
Or
To simply reply to what he is saying ( perhaps with an intention to share your thoughts about it, or to help him get clarity)
Bcz the way I understand deep listening is just listening to help the other person feel understood & accepted
Rather than offering a solution.
& questioning yourself further ahead, why do you want to offer a solution when he doesn’t “ask for” one?
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