“Words can be Powerful.” I think I agree with this kind statement because I have witnessed events where people realize that they have said some things that came out wrong or didn’t mean to offend. Or actually made someone feel good about themselves or even made their day happy. We can think of examples from films and reality. And that sometimes happen when they are at conflict or it just popped right out of their mouths. Or when they truly say “I love you” to one another after a long time and express what they feel for each other. But do they mean it? That is the question. Of course we would truly want to mean the good things we say because it matters to others, and we do. But when we say things we didn’t mean to say, we feel like we shouldn’t have said it because we think it might affect them. What if you guys are close and have spent time together your whole lives? Do you think what you say to one another still matters? Yes, of course it does! It’s alright to say silly things and joke around because you’re friends or partners or whatever kind of relationship you have with them. There are two sides when you say words to people. For example, you guys got into an argument and this has been happening for quite a while now and all of the sudden one of you spills the beans. Sometimes it might take time for us to realize what we just had said to them. Our emotions can also reflect on the things we say. You guys were angry and you just could’t understand the situation. Then you realize what kinds of words you had said to the them that you wish you had not said. That is the negative side.
The positive side on the other hand, is when you take the time to at least apologize to them. Even if it offended them or not, you try to clear things up with them and apologize. You can never take back what you said but you can let them know that you didn’t mean to say it like that. Then you give each other a hug because it simply goes with it. I also have said things that I shouldn’t have said too. I’ve said good things and said some words that just suddenly came out of my mouth and I didn’t liked it. Well, I am not really good at apologizing but it doesn’t feel right if I would just let it go. For others, words are just words that are composed with letters and you can even find the definition or meaning in Dictionary or even search for it on Google. But what matters is what you say and how you say it. So whenever you want to say something to and about someone, comment or post about something, let’s not forget to think before we speak.
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