Are there rules about healing. In life and what you been through as a child or are you suppose to heal the world ? of what your going though in life like anger or depression. Or bio poloar or If your raped. What’s the difference. People say that you need to heal before your back to normal or u need time away from friends and family and to shut the world old for awhile or atleast shut them out of your life until ready to let them back in your life. I’m not sure if I’m wanting to heal yet or if I’m not ready to heal who I am or my journey. Through life. Or my deep wounds I’ve been dealing with for a longtime. I don’t know if I want to yet my anger is still there and my depression and all of the other bullshit I’ve been through in my life or suffered i don’t know what to do yet maybe I’m ready to heal or NOT who knows