Today I got a comment on my post. The comment is about someone who thinks she’s not beautiful and she’s anxious about it. I discussed with my besties. The funny thing is a few days ago, she also complained about the same thing.

She always felt she was never enough, less beautiful and always thought that other people were much better than her. All because of her lack of confidence, self esteem.

For me everyone has their own beauty. No human is perfect and everything is created with its own beauty. Why compare yourself with others, not necessarily they are much more perfect. It could be that they are the one that who jealous of us.

I clearly knew it would be difficult to convince the person that there was no need to feel insecure. I’ve never seen her but reading her comments, her bio I’m sure she has her own beauty.

I know it’s not easy to build self-confidence, especially if you’ve been bullied for a long time. I also feel the same way, they can do body shaming on me without thinking about my feelings.

If I keep thinking about all their words then the more I fall down the happier they will be. In the end I stopped to do that. I choose to do what I love, enjoy it all, please myself.

Whatever I do, it will never be enough for them and why think about their judgment. If you like something, then there’s no need to be afraid, do it. The only one who knows you are happy or not is yourself. This is your story and you have the right to fill it in.

Beauty is not only from physical appearance. Someone who has a good heart then surely that person also has a beautiful physical appearance. If someone has a bad heart then I’m sure no one wants to be with that person.

Basically learning to increase your self-confidence. You are beautiful and you are precious. You are you and this is your life. Don’t let other people influence you and make you lose your confidence.

I know it’s not easy to do that, learn to do it slowly. Try to do it little by little and never hesitate. Convince yourself and strengthen your heart that you are capable.

The most beautiful beauty is from within a person. To do all that takes a process and sometimes it takes a long time. Do not ever give up. As long as you believe you are capable, you will certainly be able to do anything, including breaking your limits.