Marriage is a matter of giving and receiving. My mother told me when I was getting married that marriage is an institution you never graduate from. In marriage, you will never fully understand each other because both of you keep changing as a person, and you have to adjust to the changes. Imagine you are with the wrong partner, you will have to endure with that person. If you marry a selfish or obsessive person, you are stuck for a long time.

You may say to me, you will just get a divorce. That is easy to say, but do you know divorce is not just in papers?. What about your heart?. What can you sign to remove the love or hurt from your heart?. I’ve heard so many stories of young people getting a divorce and it breaks my heart. I’ve been married for almost thirty-three years and still counting by His grace, so I understand what I am talking about.

When you are married for years, you change and so does your partner, and this is the time most marriages fail. You have to adjust to the changes or else you will open doors to the enemy to destroy your home. The grass is always greener on the other side. Changing your partner will not sort your problems unless you are with the wrong partner in the first place.