Every man has a long-term plan so whenever you meet a guy, to know how serious he is about life, ask for his long-term plan. Don’t be fooled by his sweet words and elegant appearance. Looks can be deceiving. Don’t keep looking for someone you love. Look out for someone who genuinely loves you.

Men find it difficult to love, that is why they can date a lot of women at the same time. That is not the case with women; women easily fall in love. If a woman finds a man who looks after her and cares deeply for her, she will fall for him. Men are not the same. If they were, wouldn’t he marry or love the woman who was nice to him and had a child with him?. So men do not fall in love easily. However, when they do, they do so deeply.

Don’t waste your time with a man that just wants to keep you as a friend. If you are not good enough to be his girlfriend, maybe you are not meant to be together. Many men are taking advantage of young women these days with the idea of friendship. If he calls you his friends, that means he can have many friends and you cannot accuse him of doing anything wrong; after all, you are all his ‘friends’

Whoever you choose to spend your life with has a lot to do with your purpose on earth. If you have a vision and you are married to someone who doesn’t love you enough to sacrifice anything for your vision to be successful, he might even be intimidated by your success. Many women settle for less because of the man they are married to and it can also be the other way too. Whoever you choose to say ‘Yes’ to on the altar can alter your life for the better or worse…

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