First let dispel with the pervasive myth of female orgasms not being real. THEY ARE REAL.

Not only are female orgasms real, but they come in many different flavors, ranging from mediocre to cosmically blissful!

It is true that some women rarely or never orgasm. That is probably no more prevalent than men with erectile dysfunction and frankly I would go further and say its all related to the same damn thing, a mind unwilling to let go of some insecurity or other unhelpful emotion. A physical condition can also be to blame, but most of those can be secondarily linked back to the mind as well.

A moderately good orgasm feels similarly to when you first step into a shower at the perfect temperature with the perfect pressure. The water falls directly onto the crown of your head descending your skin. You feel the nerves activate, the muscles relax and a cascade of warmth trickles down the body.

Now imagine this feeling, instead of starting at your crown, it begins from somewhere deep in your pelvic floor. It creeps up your spine, down your thighs, and then ripples out in waves, moving through every joint and curve, culminating in total and utter relaxation.

If it is a really great orgasm, those relaxing ripples can also be coupled with a more powerful surge of electricity that can be felt coursing through the spine, straight down and out of the soles of our feet, while simultaneously blasting through our crown. For a moment our vision becomes a blind white light.

Post orgasm is a divine period of total relaxation. The longer you can’t move or refuse to move, the more likely it was a fantastic orgasm.