Every man has a long-term plan so whenever you meet a guy, to know how serious he is about life, ask for his long-term plan. Don’t be fooled by his sweet words and elegant appearance. Looks can be deceiving. Don’t keep looking for someone you love. Look for someone who genuinely loves you.

Men find it difficult to love that is why they can date a lot of women at the same time. That is not the case with women; women easily fall in love. If a woman finds a man who looks after her and cares deeply for her, she will fall for him. Men are not the same. If they were, wouldn’t he marry or love the woman who was so nice to him and had a child for him?. So men do not fall in love easily. However, when they do, they do so deeply.

The woman that catches a man’s eye catches his purse, but the woman that catches his heart catches his world. Your wisdom will keep a man, not your beauty. Remember, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. Have you ever seen a couple where the wife is not that ‘pretty’ but the husband worships her?. It’s because of her inner beauty which radiates outside. Please, I am not saying don’t look after yourself, I am saying there must be a balance, be beautiful inside and out. Educate your mind and study the man. I remember when my daughter was growing into a woman, she had lots of struggles understanding her Father. I sat her down and I lectured her about men. I advised her to study her father like a book and she will know how exactly to deal with him.”If it works with your father, the same applies to your husband”. She listened and now they have a good relationship. I say it to my boys all the time, use your sister and myself to learn how to deal with and understand women…

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