When I grew up and became a Christian, I was so confused for a bit about how to balance humility and people taking advantage of you. You will hear some leaders saying to you that you don’t have a teachable spirit because you cannot be controlled. Some Christians will bully you with the bible if you don’t have a clear understanding of the word. No wonder Timothy said in the book of 2 timothy 2:15 to study to show yourself approved”, you must understand your right as a child of the Most High and don’t be tossed with every doctrine. You are tired of being a victim?. Stand up and fight for what belongs to you.

Few Tips:

• Fight with the word of God. Find a passage in the bible concerning your situation. Stand on it and apply it to your life. If you ever find yourself in a court of law, you cannot win the case unless you can quote the law to defend you.
• Stop living the past.
• Learn from your past mistakes and move on.
• Don’t depend on anyone to make you happy. Happiness is what you see now, but the joy of the Lord gives you strength.
• Watch out for people with negative energy around you. Find a hobby.
• Laughter is contagious, hang around people of positive energy.
• Everybody has the right to their own opinion about you but you don’t have to live your life based on someone’s opinion of you.
• Not everyone will like you. Don’t live your life to please men. If God cannot please humanity, what makes you think you can. Aim to please God.
• If you don’t place too much expectation on people, you can never be disappointed.
• Set a goal for yourself and be committed to it, if you don’t have a map, how will you know if you have missed the road.
• Live, laugh and let go so that God can take the wheel.
• Don’t worry about tomorrow and finally look yourself in the mirror and say your life is worth fighting for.
• As Christian, we are soldiers in the camp of God, stop living like a civilian, no wonder the enemy is having a great time playing with your life.
• Your dream and vision are possible.
• Get up and fight for what belongs to you, enough is enough.
• Your life is worth fighting for…