Femininity is a beautiful and powerful quality that is often misunderstood and misrepresented in modern society. There are several sneaky lies about femininity that can cause modern women to act and think in a way that is unattractive to masculine men and even repels them.

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One of these lies is that femininity is weak or submissive. This is not true. Femininity is strong and confident, and it is important for women to embrace and express their femininity in a way that is authentic and true to themselves.

Another lie is that femininity is about pleasing men or seeking their approval. This is also not true. Femininity is about self-expression and self-love, and it is important for women to prioritize their own needs and desires in their relationships.

A third lie is that femininity is about being perfect or trying to conform to societal expectations. This can be especially damaging, as it puts unnecessary pressure on women to constantly strive for perfection, which can lead to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem.

So what is femininity actually?

Feminine energy is often described as the creative life force energy that drives the universe. It is the energy that gives birth to new ideas, projects, and relationships, and it is often associated with the qualities of intuition, emotion, and receptivity.

From a spiritual perspective, feminine energy is often associated with the divine feminine or the Great Mother, who represents the nurturing and sustaining aspects of the universe. In many spiritual traditions, the divine feminine is revered as the source of all life and the embodiment of love and compassion.

Feminine energy is also often associated with the element of water, which is associated with flow and flexibility. Water is able to take on the shape of its container, and in the same way, feminine energy is able to adapt and flow with the changing circumstances of life.

Embracing and cultivating feminine energy can be a powerful and transformative experience, as it allows us to connect with our deepest desires and needs, and to nurture and support those around us. It can also help us to cultivate a sense of inner peace and balance, and to tap into our innate creativity and intuition.

By embracing our feminine energy and allowing it to flow freely, we can create a sense of harmony and balance in our lives and in our relationships. We can also use this energy to bring new ideas and projects to fruition, and to nurture and support those around us.

In conclusion, feminine energy is a powerful and transformative force that is essential for creating and sustaining life. By embracing and cultivating this energy, we can tap into our innate creativity and intuition, and bring balance and harmony to our lives and relationships. So, it is very important for women to embrace and cultivate their feminine energy.

Now let’s look at the polar opposite which is masculine energy. Masculine energy is often described as the energy that provides structure and support, and it is associated with the qualities of action, assertiveness, and focus. In relationships, masculine energy can provide a sense of safety and security for feminine energy to thrive.

Feminine energy is often associated with the element of water, which is fluid and adaptable. In contrast, masculine energy is often associated with the element of earth, which is solid and stable. Together, these energies can create a harmonious balance, with the masculine energy providing a container for the feminine energy to flow and grow.

When a woman feels safe and supported within a relationship, she is more likely to feel confident and secure in expressing her feminine energy. This can lead to a deeper sense of connection and intimacy between partners, as each is able to fully embrace and express their true selves.

However, it is important to note that both masculine and feminine energies are present in all individuals, and it is about finding a balance between the two energies and allowing them to flow freely and harmoniously.

So if you really want a masculine man to pursue you, court you, and marry you, it is important to allow yourself to be conquered. This means being open to the pursuit and allowing yourself to be vulnerable and receptive to his advances. It is also important to remember that masculinity and femininity are not mutually exclusive, and a healthy relationship involves both masculine and feminine energies.

To stop attracting feminine, weak men who force you to become their mother and show up at your house asking for snacks, it is important to reverse your “magnetic pull.”

While you increase your feminine pull, becoming more confident in your interactions with men you will be able to set clear boundaries. If you don’t feel safe around your man, you are going to question that he will be able to support and provide for you in times you need such as having a child together.

Being a “workhorse” can be physically and emotionally draining, and it can slowly sap your zest for life. To feel alive, free, and young again, it is important to embody a “wild horse spirit.” This means being spontaneous and open to new experiences, and not being afraid to take risks.

To magnetically attract a masculine, committed man who has a desire for women like you, it is important to embody your “unique feminine flavor.” This means being authentic and true to yourself, and not trying to be someone you are not.

If you are dating a man who seems to be “all in” but you are not sure if he is looking to commit, you can use the “one word test.” Simply ask him how he sees the future of your relationship, and his answer will give you a good idea of where he stands.

It is important to remember that being a coach, therapist, or mother to the man you are dating will likely end in a loss of attraction, sneaky resentment, and (sometimes) cheating. It is important to maintain a healthy balance in your relationships and to allow your partner to be responsible for their own emotions and actions.

To keep a masculine, committed man interested, it is important to give him the simple “hands off” gift. This means allowing him to have his own space (and take space for yourself!) and time to pursue his own interests and passions. This can be especially challenging for women who are used to being in control or taking care of everything, but it is a crucial element of a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

In summary, there are several sneaky lies about femininity that can cause modern women to act and think in a way that is unattractive to masculine men. Hold space for the masculine energy to provide a sense of safety and structure for your feminine energy to thrive. By cultivating a balance between these energies, individuals and couples can create a deeper sense of connection and intimacy in their relationships. Remember to be authentic, confident, and assertive, and to have fun and enjoy the dating process.

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