It wasn’t Love: 10 Signs your Relationship was a Trauma Bond.
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Elephant was one of the first major sites to pay our best, consistent writers. But it was always hard to measure “best.” Now, we are introducing weekly payments to the top 15 articles on Elephant based on their Ecosystem Score—95% determined by our readers’ actions: reads, hearts, comments, shares, and 5% determined by our Editor’s Picks (so that mission balances popularity).
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February 19th-25th Winners
It wasn’t Love: 10 Signs your Relationship was a Trauma Bond.
Why Survivors of Abuse Can’t “Just Leave”—How our Nervous System Keeps us Frozen.
7 Signs You’re Being Love-Bombed.
A Step-by-Step Guide to Surviving Trauma.
Why there will be No Tears for Rush Limbaugh.
How the Anxious-Avoidant Roller-Coaster Dynamic can be an Opportunity for Growth.
Start the Relationship by Ending it: Breakup Tips that Inform All Phases of Conscious Relating.
When you Fall in Love with your Best Friend.
Understanding Triggers (& 6 Ways to Cope with Them).
Please Don’t Ask me How I Am.
The Truth about the Men behind Emotional & Physical Abuse.
Highly Sensitive People & Substance Abuse: When we Grow up a Dreamer.
5 Things Not to Say to Someone who is Struggling with their Mental Health.
3 Mindful Alternatives to Seated Meditation.
Why Recognizing our Childhood Conditioning is the First Step to Self-Love.