This is what it Feels like to Fall in Love with an Avoidant.
Our Ecosystem” makes it easy to Get your message out to thousands—& get paid.
Unlike Instagram or Facebook, Elephant is independent, and mission-driven—and despite having (slightly) fewer resources, we believe in paying our writers to offer quality to our readers.
Elephant was one of the first major sites to pay our best, consistent writers. But it was always hard to measure “best.” Now, we are introducing weekly payments to the top 10 articles on Elephant based on their Ecosystem Score—95% determined by our readers’ actions: reads, hearts, comments, and 5% determined by our Editor’s Picks (so that mission balances popularity).
New: Want to see the front-runners for next week’s Ecosystem Contest? Our new Contender Leaderboard is available here.
Note: When folks earn identical scores, we use the number of reads as the tiebreaker.
March 4-10 Winners
This is what it Feels like to Fall in Love with an Avoidant.
The Art of Not Dating: we Shouldn’t be with Someone to Feel Whole.
Why I hate Jeff Bezos & the Waltons but still shop at Amazon & Walmart.
Uncorking Grief: Why Numbing Trauma Doesn’t Work.
It’s been One Year since the Black Dog of Depression Visited.
In Times of War: 10 Brené Brown Quotes on Uncertainty, Fear & Vulnerability.
5 Questions to help us Explore Generational Trauma in times of Crisis.
Pampushky: A Recipe of Love from Ukraine.
You Told me Many Things—but I Stopped Listening to You.
The Sneaky Reason we’re Gaining Weight & Getting Sicker: Food Emulsifiers.