When Love Sucks: How Attachment Trauma Bites us in Relationships.
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Elephant was one of the first major sites to pay our best, consistent writers. But it was always hard to measure “best.” Now, we are introducing weekly payments to the top 15 articles on Elephant based on their Ecosystem Score—95% determined by our readers’ actions: reads, hearts, comments, shares, and 5% determined by our Editor’s Picks (so that mission balances popularity).
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March 5th-11th Winners
When Love Sucks: How Attachment Trauma Bites us in Relationships.
Princess Diana is Battling Narcissism from Beyond the Grave.
10 Societal Misconceptions about Strong, Independent Women we’re all Sick Of.
Here’s the Hard Truth we need to accept if we truly want Change.
The “Sensible” Break Up Hurts the Most.
Childless by Choice—& I’m not a Horrible Person.
A Codependent’s Road to Recovery: Learning to Take Care of our Needs.
Learning to Rebuild Emotional Boundaries & Heal Unresolved Traumas.
“Ethnic Food” in America: How Racism & Cultural Appropriation Show Up on our Plates.
A Calming Bedtime Ritual—& 5 Nighttime Affirmations for Deep Rest.
The 8 Kinds of Burnout that are Making us Sick, Tired & Cranky.
To Unlearn Emotional Repression, we have to Start with our Childhood.
Strong Women are not Impenetrable—they’re Mature & (more importantly) Human.
No more Trial & Error: How to Create a Mindful Life by Using a Simple Practice.
Don’t Like Abortion? Get a Vasectomy.