Ilda Dashi

Dear F*ck Boys: I Want a real Man.

I’m waking up to my Sexy, Erotic & Mind-Blowing Self. {Adult}

It takes time to Heal our Abandonment Wounds.

How to Truly find Ourselves—& Love everything we are.

Erotic Women can be Leaders, Too. 

Ladies, our Dream Life Lies on the Other Side of our Strength.

Are we Confusing Love with the Need to be Loved?

True Empowerment lies in Healing our Wounded Feminine Heart.

The Bad Bitch Manifesto.

Dear Women: it’s Time to Return to our Essence & Heal Ourselves.

“Deluxe Suite for One Please.” How I’m Shattering my Limiting Belie…

Why it’s time to Stop Playing Small & Become a Boss B*tch Instead.

I’m Tired of Emotionally Unavailable Men. This is the Man I Deserve.

A Warrior’s Goodbye to the Dark Year that Broke & Shattered us Open.

Holidays Make me Sad: Why I don’t Celebrate Christmas & Neither Should You.

I Want a Lover who Falls in Love With my Magical, Mysterious & Badass Self.

Damn it, You are Here to F*cking Thrive—Know it & Own it.

How to have Pleasurable, Nourishing & Enlightening Sex. {Adult}

A Woman in Touch with her Erotic Self is Medicine to this World.

Being Highly Sensitive feels Messy & Vulnerable (but it’s F*cking Powerful…

Dare to Open Up—Even when it Hurts. 

The Signs of Hidden Trauma—We may Not Remember, but our Body Does.

Dare to say No to Mediocre Love.

You are a Hurricane of a Woman—Embrace your Inner Badass.

Why I’m Done Dating Men like my Father.

“If You Want more Money You’re Greedy” & Other BS Beliefs we H…

Your Dysfunctional Push-Pull Relationship is not Love.

How to Exit the Matrix of our Conditioning—& Stop Recreating Pain for Ourselve…

Ending an Unhealthy, Toxic Relationship (the Healthy Way).

Why we Abandon our Inner Child & Chase the Wrong Men.

A New Type of Woman is Rising—She will Burn all our False Belief Systems.

My Father is Not my Superhero, Nor my Male Role Model.

A Letter to the Women who Shame & Criticize Me—I See You.

11 Unbreakable Vows I’m Making to my Goddamn Beautiful Soul.

Drop Your Armour: True Intimacy & Vulnerability Start with Us.

How Rejecting my Emotions Affected my Relationships & Self-Image.

The “Too Much” Woman will Destroy the World in order to Give Birth to a New P…

When your Dream Love Turns into a Nightmare.

How to Let Go of Your F*cked up Ego’s Self-Identity & Live your Authentic …

I was Scared to be Sexy & Beautiful—but healing my Mother Wound set me Free.

How the Father Wound makes us Choose Toxic Partners.

I Want a Man who F*cks my Mind before he Enters my Body.

Come on, Ladies! Unconditional Love is not the Price Tag for our Validation.

I’m Done playing Nice Girl; I’m Unleashing my raw Sexual Power.

Why we Should Quit Having Casual Sex.

We’ll keep Attracting F*ck Boys Until we Remember how to Love Ourselves.

The Death of George Floyd is a Wake-up call to End White Supremacy.

How to Heal our Erotic Wounds (& Connect to our Pussy).

Why other Women call me a “Stripper” & why I Don’t Care.

Listen Up, Boys: A Pole Dancer’s Lesson on Nudity & Sexuality.